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Anonymous asked: I kind of feel like if you're fat, and you go up and down in weight, it's going to be a constant struggle to maintain a healthy size for the rest of your life. Personally, I don't know one overweight person who has been capable of maintaining a healthy weight/lifestyle for more than a few years before going back to being fat again.


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anna-learns-to-love-herself:

lovehealthlift:

kirstyintheskywithbutter:

You sound like you’ve never had a weight problem & are just generalising all overweight people.

Congrats on that.

LOL

I think maybe a lot of people, who are overweight, fall back into old habits because they start their journey with the wrong motives and with all the pressure and all the bullshit diet culture is trying to tell us, it’s hard to maintain the weight after the weightloss. Many people who start a weightloss journey gain back the weight or they become obsessed with the so called “healthy lifestyle”, that’s true, but I personally think this has nothing to do with a lack of discipline, laziness or a general inability to stick to the “healthy lifestyle”. If you feel worthless and ugly when you’re bigger, losing weight won’t solve the problem. We have to realize that it’s about our HEALTH and not about eating less calories and doing workouts we hate to finally be beautiful and worth something once we’re thinner. This won’t lead to a healthy body, a healthy mind or a happy life. Start with the right motives, do it for yourself and it will be so much easier to make the right decisions and not to fall back into old habits. No matter your shape and size, you’re all beautiful, your health should be your concern! Imagine if you have an overweight child, you wouldn’t cut down the calories and force it to do brutal workouts. You’d cook healthy meals for your lovely child and make sure that it gets active. You’d always think your child is beautiful, but it deserves to be happy in a healthy body, right? Do the same for yourself.

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Reblog if you’re shorter than 5’8.

phyzzfit:

ominias:

phyzzfit:

ominias:

phyzzfit:

I’m so much shorter than 5’8 that its almost amusing. Almost :/ Thats why I pretty much live in heels - I’m a tall lass stuck in a little ‘un’s body …

5ft 8 on the dot haha

Gah!! Flaunting your height! :D

yet everybody i know seems to tower over me haha

I’m 5’3 & a half (that half is SO important!), anything over 5’6” starts feeling tall to me :)

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nine-run-run:

gmathis67:

foodffs:

Avocado Cilantro Lime Rice

Really nice recipes. Every hour.

Nice. I don’t post a lot of food but would like to try this.

this looks divine

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"

I fight Rape Culture because
When I told my ex boyfriend about my rape
He ‘forgave’ me.

I fight Rape Culture because
I saw my baby sister age overnight
As she told me about her best friend getting molested.

I fight Rape Culture because
My closest friend was abused as a child
And he told nobody but me.
It took him 13 years to open up.

I fight Rape Culture because
My friends admit to letting their partners fuck them when they don’t want it
Then laugh it off as typical male behaviour.

I fight Rape Culture because
Saying that you’re raping someone is perfectly acceptable
If you’re playing a video game.

I fight Rape Culture because
Men tell me they are insulted when women walking in front of them start to walk faster.
As if their ego is more important than our safety.

I fight Rape Culture because
If I tell somebody their rape joke isn’t funny
I am told that I’m uptight.

I fight Rape Culture because
It won’t die out
Unless we kill it ourselves.

"
I Fight Rape Culture
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eatmyselffit:

brattylifts:

eatmyselffit:

Slowwwwwly leaning out 😪 The biggest hurdle in this entire process has been patience. It’s been keeping going when I didn’t see any change. It’s assuring myself things are happening even if I can’t see them. Replacing doubt with determination. Huge learning process 💪 

You look AWESOME

THANK YOU GIRL ily 😘

you really are amazing :D

eatmyselffit:

brattylifts:

eatmyselffit:

Slowwwwwly leaning out 😪 The biggest hurdle in this entire process has been patience. It’s been keeping going when I didn’t see any change. It’s assuring myself things are happening even if I can’t see them. Replacing doubt with determination. Huge learning process 💪 

You look AWESOME

THANK YOU GIRL ily 😘

you really are amazing :D

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romie-we-deserve-love:

You can do a lot of things in 3 years, like losing more than 25 kg - 55 lbs. In 3 years you can become a completely different person, becoming someone you can be proud of. I’m so much better in my skin now, I don’t say I’m always happy and that it’s always simple, but it’s worth the change and the hard workout :) 
"No matter what you’re going through, there’s a light at the end of the tunnel and it may seem hard to get to it but you can do it and just keep working towards it and you’ll find the positive side of things."Demi Lovato

romie-we-deserve-love:

You can do a lot of things in 3 years, like losing more than 25 kg - 55 lbs. In 3 years you can become a completely different person, becoming someone you can be proud of. I’m so much better in my skin now, I don’t say I’m always happy and that it’s always simple, but it’s worth the change and the hard workout :) 

"No matter what you’re going through, there’s a light at the end of the tunnel and it may seem hard to get to it but you can do it and just keep working towards it and you’ll find the positive side of things."
Demi Lovato

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#weight loss  #transformation  #so proud of me 
my-ponchoboys:

Karen Gillan ~ Super Villain

She’s gorgeous, as always

my-ponchoboys:

Karen Gillan ~ Super Villain

She’s gorgeous, as always

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ericscissorhands:

"Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are built from it."

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